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Your No 1 Relationships Healing Blueprint 

Take back your power and know-how to heal yourself and your relationships.

If you are struggling in your relationships right now, and feel stuck, then this blueprint guide, will help you to find out what beliefs you must let go of, what beliefs you advance with and what mindset you must align with to heal your relationships.


Here's Why You Need To Have This E - Book:

#Reason 1:

Scientifically Proven

The information that is described in this document was tested and proven in 2 years of clinical trials, it was included as part of the Neural Alignment Method®️. As a result we discovered that relationships are the key to speed up the healing of any kind of pain.

(The Neural Alignment Method®️ is a multi-award-winning treatment framework developed to heal chronic pain naturally.) 

#Reason 2:

Beliefs & Mindset

Each step of healing in the e-book is presented with enlightening tasks and questions to help you uncover what present beliefs and mindset are sabotaging your actions and reactions in your relationships. Doing this self-work will guide you into realising what mindset alignment you will need to achieve in order to help you in healing your relationships.

#Reason 3:


The 6 steps of healing are relevant not only for relationships, but for all areas of growth in your life. You will be introduced to milestones that must be achieved in order to move forward. They cannot be omitted or bypassed, because if they are, or you will end up back in an endless cycle of creating the same result.

Your Healing Path:

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Take Responsibility

When we take Responsibility for our life and everything we do, the way we act and react, we command back our power and we stop giving it to others. This makes us stronger in every way, physical, mental and spiritual.

It is imperative that we keep our own power and we can only do that by taking Responsibility for our own shit/stuff. Here we will show you that taking responsibility for at least the things you create in your Relationships, will help you to take a hard look at what it is you may or may not want to keep. And when you have taken Responsibility you can begin to Accept.



When we Accept where we are in this moment we can look to where we would like to be. In that way we can create a map of our journey of anything we do. When there is no Acceptance, there is Resistance and that costs a lot, energy, time, effort and it is all wasted, because Resistance is futile.

So Accept who you are, where you are and then you can take the right action in the right direction. Once you Accept your role in your Relationships, you will actually start seeing them from a different perspective. And when the Acceptance is there you can begin to Hope.



It all starts with Hope, it means that not all is lost, that there are still possibilities, Hope is the last thing to die. As long as there is a shimmer of Hope there still is Life. And even when all seems lost and you are able to get back into Hope, it can all start again. Because each time you come back into Hope you will be able to take Responsibility and you will see that you can begin to Accept yourself again. From there you can start to create new experiences in life that you want and begin to leave the experiences behind that you don't want. As long as you keep Hope on improvement of your Relationships there are opportunities that you otherwise would not have had. And when you have Hope and start to stack evidence of its truth, you can begin to Believe.  



The first and most important thing you can do for yourself is Believing in yourself, because then you can actually start to believe in a better life. When you can believe in the possibility of happy and harmonious relationships, you will be able to create everything you need to build the life you have always wanted. When you can Believe in yourself it also means that you can allow yourself to Believe in the people you have a Relationship with.



Only when we Know what we want in our Relationships, can we create them the way we want them to be. Only when we Know who we are, can we truly be ourselves in our Relationships. Only when we Know what we are creating, can we create the Relationships we love, want and desire. Knowing gives us the power to be, do and have all our hearts desire. When you Know who you are and what you want and where you are you can really Be, Do and Have the things you really want.


Be and Do

By becoming the person we want to Be we can Do what the person we want to Be does. And when you DO what you want to DO, you will find flow in your Relationships, you will find your Relationships easy and happy, filled with lots of things that you love. Be aware of everything that is around you, Being in the here and now creates that awareness and allows you to do the things that you really love to Do without sabotaging yourself and show up in your Relationships as the person you know you want to be.

About Author: Mary-Ann Lagerwey

Mary-Ann is CEO at Alleviate Pain, Holistic Energy Healer and Intuitive Relationship Coach who helps people to connect with their authentic selves and create more fulfilling lives. She has a deep understanding of the human experience and is able to help her clients to release old patterns and wounds that are no longer serving them. Her work is rooted in the belief that we are all connected, and that by healing ourselves, we can heal the world.


Mary-Ann was born with a natural gift for connecting with people and helping them to heal. She has always been drawn to helping others, and after completing her own journey of self-discovery, she decided to turn her passion into a career. For Mary-Ann, energy healing is about more than just balancing chakras or clearing negative emotions; it's about helping people to connect with their true selves so they can live their best lives.


In her work as an intuitive relationship coach, Mary-Ann helps people to understand their patterns in relationships and how they can create more fulfilling connections. She has a keen ability to see the underlying issues that are causing pain or conflict, and she provides her clients with practical tools and guidance so they can make lasting changes.

About Co-Author: Dawn Cady

Dawn Cady is Certified Holistic Specialist, Healer, Multi-Award-Winning Pain Expert. She is Australia's Premiere Pain Freedom Coach, Founder and Owner at Alleviate Pain, Inc (2016).

Dawn was a chronic pain sufferer for 31 years and used to take 13 painkillers a day. She learned how to walk again even though doctors told her she would be disabled for the rest of her life.

In 2014 Dawn Cady created The Neural Alignment Method®, a multi-award-winning process that unites over 120 of the world’s best healing tools and techniques. The Neural Alignment Method® successfully passed 2 years of clinical trials and was incorporated into Alleviate Pain online and offline programs.

Dawn is also highly specialised in Emotional Freedom Technique, Acceptance Commitment Therapy, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Process Work, Energy Work, and Explain Pain Methods. Her expertise is to guide people on how to break the cycle of their suffering so they can be free to be who they want to be with ease, clarity, and power. 

Loved By Many

"Over the past two years I lost a handful of relationships that were important to me. From friends, to business partners and lover. It was hell to say the least. I’m grateful to find a tool that addresses my relationship fears within minutes of reading it. Within an hour I had gone through deep realisations on my position in relationships. I went from hopeless and heartbroken to feeling like I am empowered to heal myself and can still build meaningful connections. I now use it everyday, one step at a time."

Charmaine MBatha

"Mary Ann’s work is extraordinary. Her tapping scripts reach deeply into issues embedded in each Chakra, and she provides well researched informational on Chakras in general and also the one you’re working with. I highly recommend her approach, especially if you are stuck in any aspect of your life."

Helen M Brunner

"I don't know where to start, i was blown away by Dawns ability to connect with me on another level, her attention to detail and the way she deeply understood what i was experiencing and the challenges i was facing was just amazing. I am extremely grateful for her time and just after one session i feel i am able to overcome any obstacle, left me wanting more. Highly recommended. Thanks again Dawn"

Kacee Jades

"Dawn has the background (including debilitating pain), the training and education (including psychotherapy and many alternative certifications), the gift of heightened intuition, and most importantly, the passion and caring to want to help those suffering with their pain not just manage, but move and grow beyond it."

Jo Hodgson

Who Is This E-Book For:

  • This e-book is for women that are struggling in their relationships and are ready to take the first steps in healing this. When you find value in this e-book, feel free to share it with your partner so you can work on it together.

  • (Please just gently nudge your partner into this and do not use any force as it will only backfire on you.)

  • If you aren’t in a relationship this work still applies because if you don’t do the work before entering a relationship you will end up attracting someone who will bring out all of your wounds. Which is much more painful and complex than doing it on your own.

  • Get Access to the Free E-Book "6 Steps of Healing Your Relationships" by Mary-Ann Lagerwey & Dawn Cady

    Six steps of healing your relationships

    If any of these following statements are true for you then you must most definitely download and work with this 6 Steps Guide to Heal Your Relationship:

  • Are you arguing over and over about the same thing?

  • Are you being blamed of controlling others in your relationship?

  • Do you think that your career is suffering because of the relationships issues?

  • Do you expect your partner to make you happy?

  • Do you feel stuck and believe nothing will change in your relationship?

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